Change your life! It is POSSIBLE!

People often blame their fate for having misfortune in their life. POSITIVE! Lots of people are very skeptical when they heard this word. There is nothing wrong for being POSITIVE! Yes you will be judge by people, well hey, you are in control of yourself. Why should you let other people determine who you should be. Stand firm on your believe. However, DO NOT be fooled by MANIPULATIVE POSITIVITY . An example of manipulative positivity is MLM! Do remember that it is not everybody cup of tea. Not everyone can do this. So before you invest THINK beyond the unthinkable...
Manipulative Positivity is an influence that intiated by others and is used to con others for their benefits. This is the term that I created myself. You will heard lots of time people giving reference of other people who has been benefiting from the MLM or any schemes that emerge recently in the market. But the truth is IT NEVER LAST! Yes, they will get rewarded but only for short period of time. Do your homework, make a list of people that you know SUCCESSFULLY until now doing MLM or schemes that are equivalent to it.

Epidural: Yes or No

Facing the reality of labor is really scary. You will have mixed feeling of anger, confused, scared, honestly! don't know what to expect. Well, let me share my experience..Recently, I had my 5th baby on the 16th of November. The first 3, I did not take epi..because my husband said not too. We have been told that there will be lots of unwanted consequences after epi. However, during my fourth child, I was so scared of going through the labor pain so I decided to take epi. It was worth it! It takes away 80% of the pain and help shorten the labor hours. TIPS: Do not move during the procedure! I took epi during my 5th child as well. Alhamdulillah, it was ok. In fact my recent experience was painless! I did not felt any labor pain at all. It was not because of epi ( as far as I know, epi does not take away 100% of pain, the most 90%) Perhaps, because of the Vitamin C (LysinC) that I took has some benefits that contributed towards this painless experience. However, I was so grateful that God had given me 5 precious child!